Love and Dating Tips

By Harry Carver


Be careful in telling your date about your past relationships. Your first and second dates are not the best times in telling your date about your past relationships. This is because it can make the other person be bored with all your past stories. You should know that your date is interested in you and not your past. Aside from that, your information about your past relationships should not be shared to someone whom you do not trust fully yet.

Never force yourself to liking someone. Forcing yourself to liking someone is never a good idea, unless you simply want to try it out. It does not mean that if your date is the nicest one you have went out with that you should like him. This is because being nice is not the only requirement for a relationship to grow. You also need to share common interests and values, so that you can agree on lots of things.

Trust. Lots of people do not open up too much or invest too much emotion on their dates or potential partners. This is because, they are afraid of getting hurt, or they were hurt before. Thus, it is best that you become a person whom your date can trust. By doing that, you would become closer to your date, once he or she gains more trust in you.

Taboo subjects. Picking the right kinds of topics for your conversation is one of the most important things that you need to take note of, while you are on a date. To make it easier though, you should avoid talking about subjects that are taboo, since it would not encourage a more relaxing environment. Focus on lighter topics, so that you and your date would enjoy the conversation more.

Don't date other people to make someone jealous. When you are dating another person just to make someone jealous about it, then you are not doing anyone a favour. This is because; you might end up showing the other person that you really like him or her. Aside from that, chances are, you might also suggest that you really are enjoying yourself with another company when you are not.

Don't date to play games. Dating can involve emotions of people who are included in it. Therefore, if you are looking at date, as something that you enjoy just like your games, then you should rethink it. This is because playing games with people's emotions is not a good idea. Thus, it is best to see it as something that is serious, since, just like you, other people also do not want to get hurt.

Pay attention. Paying attention to your date is a must, if you want to make sure that you are indeed dating someone who has no issues. Paying attention can help you identify signs, which can tell you about the negative behaviour of your potential partner. By doing this, you would become more aware of the things that you need to consider, on deciding whether you want to see him or her again or not.

Use different perfumes or colognes. If you have been going out with a woman or a man for several occasions, then you should change your perfume or cologne, each time you go out with your date. This is because variety is the spice of life. Aside from that, you can actually impress your date by asking them about what type of cologne he or she likes best, and wear it on the next date.

Learn how to read palms. Becoming a palm reader can impress your date, aside from the fact that it can give you a chance to hold her hands. Reading your date's palms would create a more relaxed atmosphere, between you and her. Thus, it can pave the way to more interesting conversations. Aside from that, it can also make her more comfortable of the fact that you are touching her.